i think i understand what he meant. my first snakey jules is my special little guy lol...i luv them all heaps but i think in some ways it would hit harder if jules died
. i would be absolutely devastated if any of them died but i think it would hurt a little more if it was him. maybe its more that i would miss him more cos he's the gentlest and gets handled the most? hope that doesnt sound insensitive
