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[Dragoness]

I had to seperate my guys because the same thing was happening. Luckily though I live in my own house and had more than enough room to buy another 4ft tank. You will find that most of the time, if the smaller one can still see the bigger onw, even from across the room, this will be enough to stress him and stop him eating, so if they are seperated, they need to out of vision of each other.
My guys have been seperated for about 4 months now and the smaller one has just started to eat without being force fed now (thankgod!!!) Im hoping as spring gets closer he will eat more and more (my other one is 3 times the size of the smaller one)

Cheers