I have to say, as Ben mentioned, that I'm no longer just scared of Strangles (ben's snake) , I'm absolutely terrified & seeing her slithering towards Ben's face (let alone my own!!) brings me so close to tears it's not funny.
I thought it was something I wanted to overcome but now I don't want to see it out of the enclosure at all.
So I guess my thoughts are that if she doesn't like snakes, don't push her into having any interaction with it unless it's on her own terms and if she doesn't want you to get one in the first place (sorry, I should have concentrated more when I was reading the thread, don't know if you actually have a snake already), then you really should respect that and take it into consideration before before getting the snake (unless of course you have one already which makes what I'm saying slightly redundant!)
If I had a say in the matter Ben wouldn't have the snake... give me bunny rabbits & dragons any day!!