Hi Twinny, as a few people have said, it's better to leave your new little mate in his enclosure for a few days at least to settle in before handling etc. In regard to the feeding in/out of the enclosure, I asked that a few months ago after I got my 1st snake & there were a number of responses for both sides of the argument. I'm not going to debate the subject here, all I can do is offer advice from my own experiences (I'm also a newbie, now with 2 snakes). I have a pair of Bredl's Pythons & feed them both in the enclosure. I'm giving my 4 month old male weaner mice, & my younger, smaller female hopper mice. They are thawed out in a container with warm water (obviously use a container that is dedicated to rodent thawing), I thaw them out in water to about 37-40C so they are "alive mammal" temperature when offering at dinner time, always offered using tongs. Whenever I get the snakes out of the enclosure (I leave them 2-3 days after feeding before I'll handle them), I use a hook. I'll touch them lightly so they are awake & aren't startled when I put my hand in, I just lift them up with the hook, put my hand gently under them & lift them out. So far this technique has worked a treat & neither snake has tried to bite me with my hands in the enclosure. I only handle the snakes 15-20min max each time while they're still so young, the male has never once even looked like biting, the female has only once given me a little defensive nip (my fault, moved one hand in front of her a little quickly, I deserved it), but generally she is as placid as the male. Good luck