Earthling
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I fully agree ..Get the police involved.
Nobody should be putting up with this sort of thing....from anybody! As Earthling said, many people will never report the abuse themselves. It's a nasty psychological torture the victims of these sorts of 'crimes' seem to put themselves through by not reporting it themselves, as well as putting up with the physical abuse. Some drastic steps, some legal steps, need to be taken to nip this in the bud! Good luck
See that's the hard part - They have to be her decisions....
please dont take this the wrong way. i do understand, being an abuse victim for all childhood, and into my adult life. what i dont understand is you girlfriend is a kindergarten teacher, so she knows about child protection services and why she dosent seek their help. i hope this all works out for your girlfriend
thanks. i missed that till you pointed it out. that now makes it so much worse. this mother (if you can call her that) needs tobe reported before she harms anymore childrenI think it's the mother who is the teacher, not the friend. That's how I read the post anyway :?
i dont believe i just read your post.for her sake I hope it is not true, but there are always 3 sides to every story, the offenders, the victims, and the truth.
As stated I hope she is looked after if it is unprovoked abuse, but the questions need to be asked, what did/does she do to set her mother off? does she hit her mother? who starts the physical altercations etc. As these are the things Police need to know, as the law is a lot more complicated than people realise.
I have attended many incidents with teens/parent issues and often the teens have the usual teen attitude and make stuff up or start the actual abuse first, but this is not always the case as I have also seen some legit abuse cases and if that is what this is she needs to get out and go to Police NOW.
If she has done nothing wrong and it is legit abuse, go see Police as you have nothing to fear and they will help her.
j
i dont believe i just read your post.
even if it is the daughter that starts these altercations, it still dosent excuse the mother abusing the daughter in anyway. if its the daughter asaulting the mother then its the mother that needs the police help as well as seeking help for her daughter
the only reason i would even want kids is so i could bash them.
donks
zobo, i expect nothing from the police. but thats another story. and yes your right it would come out in court. its amazing what comes out and is proved there, again another story. but please read what was posted in the thread and if its the truth, a mother smashing her daughters face into a tiled floor isnt defending herself. i would of thought an experienced police officer like yourself would of picked up on that point. but yes this dose need to be looked into by more than one service and if that thread is fact then someone needs help quickly
no. if you had of read my post you would of read that i said if what has been posted in the thread is the truth.LIKE I STATED BEFORE there are 3 sides to every story.
How do you know the mother actually did that? because you heard it fourth hand (chinese whispers change alot).
j
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