Jeannine....why the enormously stressful (for you) unprovoked comments to someone you don't even know?
Not putting my hand up anytime soon for you to be my mum !! ((I"m 46 by the way))
You sound like a very angry woman. Why tell the world about your anger?
Most of us hop on here to chill out, smile at others stories, look at some pics of beautiful snakes, marvel at others set-ups, get advice, give advice where we can, and to above all, LEARN from each other - we all have something to share within this wonderful hobby.
IF YOU ARE THAT FREAKED by snakes, please PLEASE p.l.e.a.s.e. do the rest of us a favour and stay away from this part of the forum.
I personally dislike the way you conduct yourself, and your attitude towards "children" - I know the written word can be harsh, however you sound like a complete fruit loop - what sort of a mother would throw her kid out over a snake?
Us parents are the "caretakers" of our kids only for a little while - why can't they have their own ideas, and interests?
I hope your kids are well adjusted and happy in their lives, despite the views you have.
I would feel like I was a disgrace to my kids if I said the things you have said. Terrible Stuff.
And to the OP - get your mum to read this topic you started LOL.....will be the best education anyone could want.