Alias
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I had a girl that dumped me for stupid reasons and I was much the same until I decided to see it for what it was "a stupid reason" and made myself hate her. For me, it was alot easier to think of her under a bad light than it was to think how "great" she was.
At the time this worked and now later on, I still respect her and understand that what we had was good for what it was, but the pain of the breakup doesnt hurt because I removed all the "miss" factor.
I haven't seen her for 4yrs now, and don't intend on catching up at all.
This basically sums up how I've dealt with it in the past, focus on the things you didn't like about them, and before you know it you may be wondering why you were with them at all in the first place!
Remember that its never as bad as it seems in the beginning of the break up, the age old saying "time heals all wounds" is true.