So I've been living with this guy for a year, we are engaged and about to start ivf. Recently he's asked (well no, he's TOLD me) to rehome my 10y/o coastal carpet python. He then got the grumps that I compared it to making him choose between me and the kid he's already got! Totally don't know what to do. To put it into perspective he also hates my cats and thinks pets are a stupid and expensive hobby... This has all sort of happened because I work in healthcare and live outside the 20min radius so I sleep at work 5 nights a week (I do the late shift then I am on call until the lab opens in the morning).. So he's had to start looking after my pets because I'm only home 4 hours a day and I sleep for most of those. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.