I agree.
Infact I feel she will be fine without the training as she is a wonderful natured animal, only once in a blue moon will she get over excited & try to jump on you etc & that is just all young dogs in general. However my Mr's feels differently. Being a victim of a similar circumstances on her 6 year old daughter has her paranoid of large breed dogs. It was a job in itself getting her to say yes to even purchasing 1. Mind you that breed was a rottweiller & had been through training services.
So am I supposed to pass off my girls thoughts & feelings? because you say I am doing the wrong thing? Am I supposed to have my Mr's feel uncomfortable because a dog is for life? Regardless of any efforts I make she would prefer to either not own a dog at all or to buy a small breed later on when the baby is older.
The dog was advertised several times from 500 down to 100 and even offered free to good home (only 1 reply and the bloke discussed crossing it with his pittbull male so I denied him from taking her). She will only go to a good loving home, if I just wanted to get rid of her I could turn her in as a pittbull and have her disposed of, or drop her off at the pound. Obviously we care about the animal BUT as I said my family's well being, including comfortability comes 1st.
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Don't even know why I need to explain myself to a complete stranger over the internet, but oh well.