glassless_mind
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I work as a promo girl to put myself through vet science, and have recently started bikini waitressing. Everyone I mention it to turns up their nose at me.
I just don't see the problem with it. I am a waitress, just wearing a bikini. I get treated FAR, FAR better, working in a bikini in a pub than I do fully clothed working for some of the so called "elite" at "high class" social events, or even just waitressing fully clothed.
Suddenly when I put a bikini on, there seems to be a line drawn around me. No one touches me, and all the sleazy comments just seem to evaporate into thin air.
When I told my Dad what I was doing, he said it crossed a line, and that it's only so guys can perv on me, and if I think it's for any other reason then I'm kidding myself. I realise it is so customers (not only men) can look at me. I also know that I still get hit on while walking down the street. This way, I get paid for it, and there's a security guard there if I ever needed it. The only time I needed it was when I was fully clothed, working at a very exclusive event that I won't name because the vast majority of Australians would have heard of it.
I've also been told that only a "certain type" of girl works in this line. I don't agree with that. Many of the other girls I've met are also trying to put themselves through various degrees.
I want to know other people's views on bikini waitresses. I can't personally see a problem with it. Like I said, I get treated far better in a bikini in a pub than I do fully clothed at prestigious events. Yet everyone I tell, tells me not to do it, that I'm degrading myself, and do I realise that I "don't have to do this". I'm trying to understand why other people seem to think it's so wrong?
I just don't see the problem with it. I am a waitress, just wearing a bikini. I get treated FAR, FAR better, working in a bikini in a pub than I do fully clothed working for some of the so called "elite" at "high class" social events, or even just waitressing fully clothed.
Suddenly when I put a bikini on, there seems to be a line drawn around me. No one touches me, and all the sleazy comments just seem to evaporate into thin air.
When I told my Dad what I was doing, he said it crossed a line, and that it's only so guys can perv on me, and if I think it's for any other reason then I'm kidding myself. I realise it is so customers (not only men) can look at me. I also know that I still get hit on while walking down the street. This way, I get paid for it, and there's a security guard there if I ever needed it. The only time I needed it was when I was fully clothed, working at a very exclusive event that I won't name because the vast majority of Australians would have heard of it.
I've also been told that only a "certain type" of girl works in this line. I don't agree with that. Many of the other girls I've met are also trying to put themselves through various degrees.
I want to know other people's views on bikini waitresses. I can't personally see a problem with it. Like I said, I get treated far better in a bikini in a pub than I do fully clothed at prestigious events. Yet everyone I tell, tells me not to do it, that I'm degrading myself, and do I realise that I "don't have to do this". I'm trying to understand why other people seem to think it's so wrong?