motman440
Well-Known Member
three or four of my mates work topless in a bar on ladies night. No difference. But Im sure the views are
That's cool if you need clarification on what I mean.How is it an easy way out? If it was so easy this thread wouldn't exsist. It's tougher and more gutsy then most run of the mill jobs.
If you are comfortable doing it then go for it.
I'm wondering what people think because I want to understand WHY they think what they do. Would I quit this job if every person on here had said something negative about it.. No. I enjoy it and I need the money. To wander around in a bikini and be called gorgeous is liberating and gives me confidence in my bikini.
I don't really know what makes a person "tough and gutsy"... Is the job hard work? Yes. After crushing the nerves in my toes on wednesday night, I was still wearing heels and smiling on friday night. Only the barman noticed when I slipped my shoes off out the back and cried out. Then I went back to work and continued to talk and smile. I still enjoyed the work, but my feet hurt quite a bit...
On wednesday night some old sleaze tried to hug me up against the wall. I crossed my arms in an X across my chest and stepped sideways. Security was on him faster than the Flash. This would NEVER happen if I was in a bikini. The rules are very strict, and everyone knows that if they don't follow them to the letter then they get kicked out straight away.
If there was another job, with just as flexible hours, that paid just as much and didn't involve wearing a bikini, would I do it? Sure thing. But I haven't found one...
I wear heels all day too, I know what you mean. It's actually feels like when Chinese people used to bind their feet lolI don't really know what makes a person "tough and gutsy"... Is the job hard work? Yes. After crushing the nerves in my toes on wednesday night, I was still wearing heels and smiling on friday night. Only the barman noticed when I slipped my shoes off out the back and cried out. Then I went back to work and continued to talk and smile. I still enjoyed the work, but my feet hurt quite a bit...
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That's cool if you need clarification on what I mean.
I mean because of the pay amount, & because there are a lot of girls out there who struggle with money at uni because they don't want to be topless or wear a bikini just to make some cash.
It really does, my feet look all squishy afterwards, and the balls of my feet feel swollen.
I believe people are very quick to judge, the only person who can advise you is ... you. If this is something you can do and hold your head high, then do it. It really shouldnt matter what people think.(parents tend to be a little over protective, specially Dad's with their Daughters) If you are proud of yourself and you like the job go for it I say
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