When I first broke up with my ex, I tried and tried to see my kids and she did everythin to try and stop me. She was never home when it was my time with the kids, she would con them in to staying home with promises of new pets or maccas.... She even got together with her friends and had me up on many charges! (false of course!) The charges were dismissed but she used them to have me ruled 'unfit' to see my kids. I decided to stop trying and just ignore it all. If the kids wanna see me when they get older then good. The damage that was happening to me wasn't worth it.
7 years on and I still get the odd phone call from her but I just go "yeah...yeah....yeah" and forget about it after I hang up. She even had her new boyfriend's sister (who works for child support) call me and demand to know why I have snakes when I should be paying more child support! She told the sister that I bought a pair of water pythons for $2000! lol (they'd wanna be GREAT water pythons!!!) :lol: maybe I'm not meant to have a life now because of these 'commitments'??
So, while it is all verbal just ignore it. If it goes further then stand up and defend yourself. If I had ignored my ex from the start I wouldn't have a criminal record or lost thousands of dollars defending myself in court. (and yes, you still have a criminal record EVEN if the charges are dropped!)