help with girls

[waruikazi]

this would work would it?

Hi, I just wanted to give you the satisfaction of turning me down; go ahead say no.


Will

That one is a bit negative...

 

[method]

this would work would it?

Hi, I just wanted to give you the satisfaction of turning me down; go ahead say no.


Will

Yeah, definatley

 

[waruikazi]

i say take everything as it goes, dont look for anything, whatever you want will find you when its the right time..

socialise and make new friends and see where that takes you..

Fate is a load of bollocks! If you rely on fate you will be a virgin for the rest of your life. You make your own destiny.

 

[jessb]

this would work would it?

Hi, I just wanted to give you the satisfaction of turning me down; go ahead say no.


Will

Please don't use 'lines'. They are soooo tacky, they scream "desperate" and make you look like you have read some book on "how to score" but have nothing interesting to say yourself.

I was pretty hot and in demand in my teens (not quite up to that standard any more, but don't have any complaints from my husband!) but in my teens, if I ever had a guy show me so little respect as to use a tacky line on me, I would never even consider going out with him. Because really as a girl, you know you will just be a conquest, and if you turn him down he will use that exact line on the next girl he walks up to.

You want to make a girl feel special, like you want to be talking to HER because you think SHE is interesting/funny/clever/pretty/whatever, not that she just happens to be the closest chick for you to make an attempt with. Using a rehe****d line totally cheapens the interaction and turns the whole conversation into a gimmick that undermines any sense of individuality or connection you may have had with the girl.

Just go up and say "Can you believe what Mr ??? the science teacher did today" (or whatever is relevant) and start from there. If you can't start a conversation without a pre-rehe****d line, what makes you think you are going to be able to hold an interesting conversation if you get a date with her anyway?

You want to go out with a girl who is fun, who you enjoy spending time with, and have a good time talking to. Really, at your age, you want a girl who is a good mate, but who you think is attractive too. Actually, that's kind of what everyone should look for in a relationship I think. If you are lucky, the person you fall in love with will be your best friend, the person you want to spend as much time with as possible, have a great time with, who you trust and who you think is the second sexiest person alive (after Johnny Depp)

Phew, you can tell I've been away on a business trip and haven't seen my darling husband for a couple of days can't you?! Sorry about the mushiness...

 

[fritzi2009]

"What has 142 teeth and holds back the incredible hulk? My zipper."
ROFL!
I've given up on teenage relationships at the moment.. it's too much hard work. People can't mind their own business and blah blah this. I'd rather concentrate on studying because I'd rather work toward uni and a good job (and in the future hopefully lots of money) than have the burden of an immature sex driven teenage boyfriend. Plenty of time for boys when they grow up..

 

[ravan]

"What has 142 teeth and holds back the incredible hulk? My zipper."

lmao! thats gold!

. Plenty of time for boys when they grow up..

hehe very true

 

[hellion]

okay my ultimate advice. are you ready for how i got my girl friend????


. i got drunk one night out............................................ and iv been with her eva since.

 

[reptilefan95]

Two words Barry White! just pump some of that music and watch the ladiesss come a running

 

[Sarah24]

Well this hasnt been posted on in agess....but whatever..i havent been on aps in ages either so im gonna start it up again lol.

Anyway, Will, you're 12 so the girls are going to be just as nervous as you. If it makes things easier, you and your mates should find a group of girls that you can hang out with all together. It makes conversation easier and may help you work up some confidence with your 'special friend '. Just dont ignore the girls for your mates. Believe me it is SO annoying! Me and my friend met up with some of our guy friends the other day and they were just soooo anti-social and inwardly focused that we just got so bored and left. So yeah, remember to pay attention the the girls. Give them compliment...we love that...but make sure the compliments are on things such as their outfit or hair. Saying they have nice boobs isnt a good way to go. So basically, if its covered up, dont talk about it.

If you're alone with a girl you may find it a bit harder to talk to her. But honestly it isnt. Talk about common interests etc. You will also probably find that girls LOVE to talk about themselves. So don't keep rambling on about everything YOU like but ask her what SHE likes. And make sure you listen to the answer. There is nothing more annoying than a boy who just looks bored whenever you're having a converation with him and you can just tell he's thinking about something different. So atleast TRY to look like you're paying attention.

Another thing, i'm going to stereotype here. Girls do love material things like flowers, pretty shiny things etc. But if you start buying them gifts from the first date you may appear clingy. And you defs do not want that. Coz if ur clingy, she will most likely push you away. So give it time, save the pretty gifts for your one week anniversary . Also, a lot of teenage girls are superficial. You will find them checking out guys left right and centre. You can't change them so if you're not a total hottie (though i'm sure you are Will lol) you're most likely going to have to put in some effort to make some personality shine through more. Then again, you could be the hottest guy ever but if your a douche to her or her friends, she will dump you lol.

And one other final thing. Don't come on too strong but make sure she knows that you're interested. Otherwise you risk being friend-zoned. And once your in friend-zone, its very hard to get out.

OH! one more thing...lol...don't check out her friends (or any other girls..but mainly her friends) while you're infront of her.

Hope this helped

xx Sarah xx

 

[Colin]

Two words Barry White! just pump some of that music and watch the ladiesss come a running

thats snakes that come running mate and only on whacking day

 

[Colin]

OH! one more thing...lol...don't check out her friends (or any other girls..but mainly her friends) while you're infront of her.

great advice.. just wait till shes not around then hit on them when there alone and no one is witness to it

"being with" her best friends would probably be way more exciting than "being with the actual girlfriend" thats the tip mate :lol:
and if she doesn't know about it wont hurt her and you get the best of both worlds

Im wearing an asbestos suit and Im fire resistant :lol: and Im just JOKING (kinda)

 

[Sarah24]

great advice.. just wait till shes not around then hit on them when there alone and no one is witness to it

"being with" her best friends would probably be way more exciting than "being with the actual girlfriend" thats the tip mate :lol:
and if she doesn't know about it wont hurt her and you get the best of both worlds

Im wearing an asbestos suit and Im fire resistant :lol: and Im just JOKING (kinda)

bahahaha nooo it cant be her BEST friend...shes bound to find out that way! just stick to her aquaintences

 

[Ozzie Python]

great advice.. just wait till shes not around then hit on them when there alone and no one is witness to it

"being with" her best friends would probably be way more exciting than "being with the actual girlfriend" thats the tip mate :lol:
and if she doesn't know about it wont hurt her and you get the best of both worlds

Im wearing an asbestos suit and Im fire resistant :lol: and Im just JOKING (kinda)

haha, only wrong if you get caught.

Don't reveal too much Colin, they'll work us males out soon.

 

[Colin]

bahahaha nooo it cant be her BEST friend...shes bound to find out that way! just stick to her aquaintences

yes go the aquaintances and the peripheral friends first.. and circle slowly in an ever decreasing circle like a shark herding fish till you get to the "best friend" If you stretch it out and make it last it will be much sweeter

 

[Sarah24]

haha, only wrong if you get caught.

Don't reveal too much Colin, they'll work us males out soon.

oh u would be amazed at what we already know

 

[Specks]

im lucky i picked someone up on sunday

 

[lizardsNturtles]

okay my ultimate advice. are you ready for how i got my girl friend????


. i got drunk one night out............................................ and iv been with her eva since.

so alcohol does realy help everything!!:lol:

 

[Jay84]

Just go gay....... We are never shy! lol

 

[Smokey]

arggh :x

 

[Jay84]

Something you wanna say smokey??