lazybuddha
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well, i suppose yes. i'm know im going to get healthy in my own time
My question is how long will it be before obesity is questioned in a similar manner. "What are you doing, don't you know how unhealthy it is to be so overweight ?"
It's a vicious circle when it comes to overweight people,
If you haven't been there then you really don't understand, it's also a mental thing which cannot be overcome as easily as saying "just lose the weight"
walk a mile in someone else's shoes before making judgments.
that isnt going to work, believe me. im 130kg at the moment, and put it this way, my PE teacher at school tried that so my last week at school i ate one of those double pounder (the ones with 8 pieces of meat) in front of her.
the point is, i was planning to get healthy in my own time and every time someone did something like that, its like well stuff you im going to eat a pie sandwhich.
I want to know why it's alright for people to have a go at me for being underweight, when as soon as an overweight person gets called fat, it's "discrimination" hahaha!
People do extraordinary things when they want to, and I believe it should be every person's ambition (fat or thin) to be as healthy as they can be.
It's a vicious circle when it comes to overweight people,
If you haven't been there then you really don't understand, it's also a mental thing which cannot be overcome as easily as saying "just lose the weight"
walk a mile in someone else's shoes before making judgments.
Hmm it all depends I guess. If you're talking about someone who has anorexia, doesn't eat the proper foods etc then I guess it would be very dangerous.
In my case, I just find it hard to gain weight, being vegan has something to do with it but I do also have a fast metabolism. I'm a good weight now though (after a lot of effort and disgusting weight gain shakes) but still get crap about being thin?
Like today, I said I was freezing in my office. My boss (who is overweight) replied with "Maybe if you put some weight on you wouldn't be so cold". Of course I said back "Actually, perhaps if you lost some weight, we wouldn't have to have the air con up so high to keep you cool" :lol::lol::lol: He was not impressed, but saw where I was coming from.
I believe saying anything like that to fat or thin people is horrible,
It's just as bad for thin people as fat ones, I agree with kelly on this one, like she said, she has a fast metabolism, others have a very slow one,
Ohh and you may find that not all the biggest losers on the tv are happy now, it traumatized many of them and making a fat person eat a mound of cakes so they can stay on a show to lose weight is healthy for them??
It's not nice to say to someone skinny , ohh just put on weight, go eat some cream cakes or something,
it's not nice to say anything nasty to any person to make yourself feel better, and that's what it boils down to a lot of the time,
Hahaha Hubby said the same thing when he saw it on the News:lol:does that mean anorexic people get $20 flights?
I want to know why it's alright for people to have a go at me for being underweight, when as soon as an overweight person gets called fat, it's "discrimination" hahaha!
I've walked this particular mile, its not easy but well worth it. All it takes is motivation, organization, intelligence and persistence. Mind you the hard part was dropping alcohol to near zero. But just looking at my relatives and listing to the whining and the medical problems reinforces my belief it was the right decision.
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