Being military (ex) myself I find it hard to believe you adopt the stance you have. In the military I was in, if someone stole from someone and didn't rectify the situation honourably, they would be found bleeding profusely at the bottom of a stairwell. Not that I condone this sort of behaviour but things sorted themselves out very quickly. Darryn doesn't have to stay down. He can pick himself off the ground, admit fault and right his wrongdoings. Your perception of being too nice seems a bit skewed also (IMO). I not had to wait for my enclosures, I was lied to, sent the wrong size enclosures and never reimbursed my $1000 plus dollars.
Fine if you want to say "I purchased some enclosures of Darryn, they came in a timely manner and were very well built," then go ahead and say it. Darryn's a big boy, he can stick up for himself.