As a parent, I'd like to say- to everyone freaking out about a 'pedophile' being on the forum- if you think they aren't EVERYWHERE- you are naive. Besides, the fact is that most incidents are perpetrated by someone known to the child, or in a position of trust.
There could be a dozen pedophiles, rapists and other freaks of nature cruising this forum as members- and unless you did a police check on every one who joins/is a member, that risk is ALWAYS going to be there, no matter what forum you're in.
You're kidding yourself if you think I'm wrong. In this day and age we need to do more than ever to protect our families. This includes using common sense when people ask to see pics of your kids...there are many who are innocent (such as Pilbara Dave), and there are not some who's motives are suspect. Use your better judgement. If you post, be aware that your kids pics can and probably will be seen by some freak.
Thats not to say you shouldn't post. Fear is a major factor - we can spend our lives scared of everything.
JM2CW.
My problem with the moderating system was that people in positions of power were degrading, derogatory, disrespectful and using personal problems to determine who would be slapped.
It becomes one set of rules for them, one set of rules for us.
We are all expected to extend common courtesies, and to obey the site rules. So should the moderators, whether in their little private forum or not.
Who moderates the moderators? Obviously no one.
Again, JM2CW.
I believe APS will bounce back, because it is a good forum that just got a little off the path. It is an excellent source of information, and for the most part, the members here are awesome. In fact, there's probably only one or two that I feel I wouldn't get along with IRL, just because we have such varied opinions.
And Adam - This new look is great- you've done a great job! I only have one criticism- that threads can be seen by non members. I think that instead of pretty much the only privilege of being a member is to actually post, it should be to be able to view the forum itself. If that makes sense?? People are gleaning the information without bothering to become members I guess- and I don't think thats fair on those giving out their years of experience, as the purpose of the forum is to provide that information to its members- there's no point becoming a member if you can see all that advice without joining....
I dont' know if I'm making sense or not...I hope so- but anyway- thats just what I think.