Jewly
Very Well-Known Member
Hi all,
Just wanted to get a few opinions on an issue that I'm having with my son at the moment.
Just to give you a bit of background, my son Zac is almost 16 and he left school last year in November after finishing year 10. He really didn't put very much effort into finding work for most of that time instead preferring to sit at home on his backside doing nothing while I'm out working full time.
Now the problem is, is that he's managed to get himself a job at a bakery not far from us (which is great) but he has to start at 3am and he wants to get up at 2am and have a shower but it wakes me up and I can't get back to sleep for hours. I've asked him to shower before going to bed at night and to just get up and get dressed and leave for work so it doesn't wake me but he thinks I'm being unfair and says that he needs a shower to wake up.
I can understand that it's hard to wake up at that time, but it's also hard for me to have that broken sleep every night because I wake up exhausted and it's affecting my performance at work. I should also add, that I'm a single mother and it's incredibly hard to get him to do anything around the house so I'm left to do 95% of all the chores, shopping etc, whilst he only does his 6 hrs at work and has the rest of the day to himself.
So, I'd like some opinions on whether you think I'm being fair or not?
Cheers,
Julie
Just wanted to get a few opinions on an issue that I'm having with my son at the moment.
Just to give you a bit of background, my son Zac is almost 16 and he left school last year in November after finishing year 10. He really didn't put very much effort into finding work for most of that time instead preferring to sit at home on his backside doing nothing while I'm out working full time.
Now the problem is, is that he's managed to get himself a job at a bakery not far from us (which is great) but he has to start at 3am and he wants to get up at 2am and have a shower but it wakes me up and I can't get back to sleep for hours. I've asked him to shower before going to bed at night and to just get up and get dressed and leave for work so it doesn't wake me but he thinks I'm being unfair and says that he needs a shower to wake up.
I can understand that it's hard to wake up at that time, but it's also hard for me to have that broken sleep every night because I wake up exhausted and it's affecting my performance at work. I should also add, that I'm a single mother and it's incredibly hard to get him to do anything around the house so I'm left to do 95% of all the chores, shopping etc, whilst he only does his 6 hrs at work and has the rest of the day to himself.
So, I'd like some opinions on whether you think I'm being fair or not?
Cheers,
Julie