i think you did well tamarins : )
i would have been bawling my eyes out but your handling this well.
some of you should no that a snake is a snake in most peoples eyes.to them they are all the same.
and of course he's going to kill it, your an idiot if you think he's going to stop and look at the pretty blue sky and think 'hmmm, i dont think i will kill this one today, lets let it go free'.
years of living on a farm will put you into a state of mind to kill anything you see as a threat to your family and livestock, whether that be the neighbours dog or a snake.
sure we can educate him, spend hours with him telling him right from wrong but then, once he agrees its not better to kill the snake and we feel all smug and happy for making some one change, his neighbour will be out there with a shovel.
cant change the past, snake is dead, farmer feels safe, tamarin feels sad.
be happy in the knowledge that her parents wont be on that farm killing snakes unless its called for. : )