Some years ago I was sitting in on a group of government representatives from Pacific nations (PNG, Solomons, Vanuatu, Fiji, Cook Islands, Tonga, Nauru etc) that were doing a training course run by the Australian Conservation Training Initiative at Taronga Zoo. At one point I gave a 15 minute presentation to them on snakes, as most of them had never seen a snake, being from countries with only lizards and frogs. As I walked around the room with a large BHP draped around my shoulders, talking about their various adaptations and way of life, I had invited the participants to gently touch or stroke the snake. Everyone, including all the men, simply leaned back slightly when I came around and didn't try to touch it. They were fascinated, and trusted me, but just couldn't bring themselves to reach out.
Until i got to the woman from PNG. I could see her smacking her lips, and as she reached out and very roughly patted it in a blase manner, she amde a comment about wishing Sepik Province had big fat snakes like this one, as it would feed her whole family.
After that, some of the other women touched it, and then ALL the men (including ones I had passed) came up too. It seems that they felt if a woman could touch it, it wouldn't look good if they were too afraid to do the same!
At Morning Tea one of the guys from Fiji asked if I could drape the BHP over his shoulders for a photo, which I did. After giving me the python back he said he would never, ever toucha snake again, but he just had to have that photo to show his kids - because after they see how brave he was, they would never disobey him again!
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