Welcome Mel,I think a spotted would fit the bill nicely like others have mentioned,blondes are nice.
I apollogize for the rudeness/embarrasing behavior of others but this seems to be "common practise" on APS,try not let this blur your opinion of the site as its a wealth of knowledge once sifted through the crap/arguments/big heads/egos.
AWESOME way to make a new person feel welcome and like staying people(you know who you are).Next time you's post why dont you think about something other than yourselfs and make a valid contribution.If this cant be done then beat your chests through PM so we dont have to see the crap or peoples threads deleted.Bottom line is have some respect.............