Jewly
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doesn't matter who works what hours, its your house its your rules.
you've tried being nice, and now i deffinately think you need to try the tough love method, GO GIRL!
i dont know how it all works but wouldn't it be nice if you could just shove him in some military school and let them do the bashing? lol, dont think it works like that but its a nice thought.
he sounds like he has no idea how easy he has it at the moment, he couldnt cop highschool so he just quit, fair enough, but sitting around on his **** all day and now whinging about the conditions of getting a job? pfft, welcome to the real world sunshine, just remind him that at least he has a bed, his own room, a roof over his head, food on the table etc. its more than what alot of people in this world have.
now go to the bathroom and practice that snarly face, you know, the one that says 'i mean business!'. lol
its such a shame that people of my generation in general have so little respect for others, even some of my closest friends don't see what terribly rude and judgemental people they can be. i blame the internet, going to youtube now
That's not the case at all. When he goes to bed, he is upstairs and I'm downstairs sitting on the lounge watching tv. The only noise I make is to walk up the stairs and go to bed which doesn't ever wake him. There have been times I've had to wake him up and I've had to stand at his door, (after opening his door, which is really noisy) and then I have to shout at him a number of times before he wakes up.
You might be sick of what you call 'briefcases' attitudes but come on. The normal day/night routine is the normal time to work/sleep and I'm sure you're probably being paid more to work nights to compensate you for any inconvenience. In saying that though, I do think your housemates should be showing you a bit more courtesy by not making too much noise early in the morning. As for the washing machine...there's probably not a lot they can do about that, cause washing has to be done, and if they are hanging it out on a clothesline then it has to be outside early so it dries but they could wait until 10am maybe.
Ummm...now, I don't think I want to be able to sleep through a smoke alarm. Kinda defeats the purpose of having them..lol
shooshoo....he doesn't know how good he's got it. I recently bought him a new double bed and when I got my laptop, I gave him my desk and computer so he has that in his room now. He has a nice unit to live in, and there's always food in the house. He's going to get a nasty shock when he moves out and understands how much everything costs.
I haven't spoken to Zac yet, but I've sent him some messages on MSN explaining that I've decided to charge him $25 a week for board. I've already transferred it out of his account into mine, so that he doesn't go and spend it all before I have a chance to talk to him. Besides, it's not really up for discussion because he's not going to live here and not contribute sometime from his wages.
you've tried being nice, and now i deffinately think you need to try the tough love method, GO GIRL!
i dont know how it all works but wouldn't it be nice if you could just shove him in some military school and let them do the bashing? lol, dont think it works like that but its a nice thought.
he sounds like he has no idea how easy he has it at the moment, he couldnt cop highschool so he just quit, fair enough, but sitting around on his **** all day and now whinging about the conditions of getting a job? pfft, welcome to the real world sunshine, just remind him that at least he has a bed, his own room, a roof over his head, food on the table etc. its more than what alot of people in this world have.
now go to the bathroom and practice that snarly face, you know, the one that says 'i mean business!'. lol
its such a shame that people of my generation in general have so little respect for others, even some of my closest friends don't see what terribly rude and judgemental people they can be. i blame the internet, going to youtube now
Coz if he wakes up at 2am.... he is clearnly trying to sleep when the house is genuinely noisey
That's not the case at all. When he goes to bed, he is upstairs and I'm downstairs sitting on the lounge watching tv. The only noise I make is to walk up the stairs and go to bed which doesn't ever wake him. There have been times I've had to wake him up and I've had to stand at his door, (after opening his door, which is really noisy) and then I have to shout at him a number of times before he wakes up.
You might be sick of what you call 'briefcases' attitudes but come on. The normal day/night routine is the normal time to work/sleep and I'm sure you're probably being paid more to work nights to compensate you for any inconvenience. In saying that though, I do think your housemates should be showing you a bit more courtesy by not making too much noise early in the morning. As for the washing machine...there's probably not a lot they can do about that, cause washing has to be done, and if they are hanging it out on a clothesline then it has to be outside early so it dries but they could wait until 10am maybe.
Get some earplugs. I sleep through smoke alarms wearing those things and don't even notice Im wearing them, it solves the sleep issue and you can get a carton of 200 pairs for like very little money.
Ummm...now, I don't think I want to be able to sleep through a smoke alarm. Kinda defeats the purpose of having them..lol
shooshoo....he doesn't know how good he's got it. I recently bought him a new double bed and when I got my laptop, I gave him my desk and computer so he has that in his room now. He has a nice unit to live in, and there's always food in the house. He's going to get a nasty shock when he moves out and understands how much everything costs.
I haven't spoken to Zac yet, but I've sent him some messages on MSN explaining that I've decided to charge him $25 a week for board. I've already transferred it out of his account into mine, so that he doesn't go and spend it all before I have a chance to talk to him. Besides, it's not really up for discussion because he's not going to live here and not contribute sometime from his wages.
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