SuburbanMe
Active Member
I reckon you're taking her stance on things the wrong way mate. I'm not saying you're wrong to want the herps, but is she wrong for looking ahead in life and thinking about other things that are more important like bills?
Personally - i say get the snake and don't think twice, but then the other side of my brain kicks in and looks at the way things are - and I guess she's kinda right - like my situation - I've got 39 blueys - I don't need anymore - but that doesn't mean i don't want them. But where will they go? How am i gonna afford to keep feeding them all? I don't wanna even think about the lighting situation and how that's gonna affect the electricity bill.
It's all up to you mate - do you care if you upset her? Is the snake really worth jeopardising the relationship over? (now for Guy thinking) - Could you really go without the action? Could you easily handle the cleaning, the bills, and feeding yourself if she wasn't around?
Answer all these Q's, and you'll know if you should go get the snake or not.
Personally - i say get the snake and don't think twice, but then the other side of my brain kicks in and looks at the way things are - and I guess she's kinda right - like my situation - I've got 39 blueys - I don't need anymore - but that doesn't mean i don't want them. But where will they go? How am i gonna afford to keep feeding them all? I don't wanna even think about the lighting situation and how that's gonna affect the electricity bill.
It's all up to you mate - do you care if you upset her? Is the snake really worth jeopardising the relationship over? (now for Guy thinking) - Could you really go without the action? Could you easily handle the cleaning, the bills, and feeding yourself if she wasn't around?
Answer all these Q's, and you'll know if you should go get the snake or not.