you might be 24 but its HER house, HER rules and if you dont like them maybe its time for you to save up and move out then you can do what you want when you want
if you want to be treated like an adult then act like one
telling your mother her fears are stupid and you will bring a snake into HER home knowing she does NOT like them is the act of a spoilt brat who needs reminding who exactly pays the rent/mortgage where you live
if you were my son and turned up with a snake it and you would be out in the front yard looking for a new place to live
what a rude and disrespectful CHILD you are, showing her video's of snakes, getting her reading material is treating her like the child and your trying to bend her to YOUR rules, some of us just dont like snakes its a fact of life and we dont have to GET OVER IT, you have to accept it
i dont like snakes but i still allowed my son to have one at one stage, hell i even fed the damn thing rats but that was MY decision, like it or not your mother does not like them so stop trying to push your needs onto her
why are you posting on a reptile forum then? no need to push your opinions on others. Showing her videos and other snakes isnt treating her like a child its educating her and trying to stop her fear. At the end of the day she would know a little more useful knowledge and maybe even find a new love =] wishful thinking...