no offence to you greenwillow but this really isn't about grammer. most of us can use it but dont find it necessary when typing in a forum like this where it is the topic of discussion that matters and not necessarily how elequently and accurately it is put across.
and to you python blue, i personally dont know you or who you are but from reading this i dont think i know a person who comes across as immature, quick to anger irrationally, to take offense needlessly, to lie and deceive and to attack others for perfectly honest and neutral advice!
and as it seems i need to point out, this more honest advice, not another attack, that you should probably watch what and how you say things and who and why you say them to cos it seems to be unanimous that people are taking offence.